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Not just a critique of marriage but one of the best books EVER on
romantic relationships and how they really work. What do people
want from love? How do they think marriage will help them, and what
does it really give them? Marriage is all about love, right?
Actually, it's more about money. Behind the romantic language,
marriage is primarily a financial agreement merging the assets and
liabilities of two individuals into a single corporate entity.
After your wedding, the money you earn and debts you incur are no
longer legally yours; they belong to the marital "community"-a
common pot that both of you contribute to and draw from. It's a lot
like Communism: an idealistic sharing of resources and risks
supposedly for the common good. What could go wrong with this plan?
Pretty much the same things that brought down political Communism
in the late 20th Century: It slows growth, suppresses initiative,
dilutes responsibility and mires decisions in bureaucracy. Healthy
relationships need clear boundaries, and marriage erases too many
of them at once. Marriage was designed for medieval times. Back
then, life was hard and short; most marriages were arranged, and a
woman was essentially the property of her husband. Marriage was a
sort of licensing system for sex and childbirth. Once the
relationship was officially approved and the religious ceremony
concluded, the couple's overriding goal was to produce as many
children as possible, knowing that many would die. Times have
changed. Birth control, longer life spans, sexual freedom and
women's rights have rewritten the rules of matrimony. Under the
laws of most Western countries, marriage is no longer a sex license
or child-rearing contract, only a contract to merge financial
resources. "It's only money," couples may say, but Glenn Campbell
argues that love and money are separate issues that should be kept
that way. In modern Western society, unmarried people can legally
have sex, live together, raise children, buy property together and
do nearly everything else associated with a committed relationship,
so why do they need to marry at all? What are you really getting
when you walk down the aisle? Is marriage merely a public
announcement to make your relationship "official," or does it
fundamentally change the relationship? With simple, powerful and
accessible arguments, The Case Against Marriage explains why, if
you truly love someone, marriage may not be the wisest way to show
it.
In Two Volumes. Volume 1, General Bibliographies And Reference
Books; Volume 2, History, Auxiliary Historical Sciences,
Ethnography, And Geography.
An Annotated Bibliography Of Selected Materials In The Chinese
Collection Of The Hoover Institution On War, Revolution, And Peace.
Hoover Institute Bibliographical Series No. 8.
The twenty-one essays in this book provide an overview of the
contributions of Nobel laureate and Hoover Institution honorary
fellow Friedrich A. von Hayek to the fields of economics, political
theory, history, and philosophy.
The essays in The United States in the 1980s, written by a group of
renowned and widely respected specialists, are a major contribution
to a balanced discussion of the choices that lie ahead. The authors
analyze the central issues, describe the policy options open to the
country, and recommend specific courses of action to deal with or
mitigate the problems confronting the United Statest--in
recognition of the fact that the major problems of the new decade
"are interrelated, that no problem can be resolved in isolation,
and that different perspectives can contribute to a clearer and
more balanced understanding of the problems that are often viewed
as separate from one another." The United States in 1980s will not
provide comfort or reassurance for pessimists or optimists. On the
contrary, by stressing that there are realistic limits to America's
ability to solve all problemst--domestic and internationalt--the
essays offer guidance for sensible solutions and identify the solid
base of strength upon which the United States can build in the new
decade.
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